
My role -a dream role- was made redundant three months ago.
I worked in media (as a journalist) so it wasn’t entirely unexpected but still, there was a tidal wave of emotions that came with it. I was shaken.
I knew I had to make an effort to start
feeling balanced again. But I didn't realise that that respite would come from beauty.
Putting on makeup in the morning, just enough to make feel put-together, and then slowly and deliberately applying skincare in the evening, helped me steady myself.
I’d underestimated how important that feeling was in a time I felt out of control. How helpful these
small acts of composure could be among the chaos. It made me feel ‘normal’ again.
Here are the products (and
self-care moments) that helped me feel like myself again...
Mood-boosting Makeup Favourites:

Highlighters are so underrated. Growing up, I always thought of them as a ‘nice to have’, but not necessary step in a makeup routine. Now I know they do a lot more heavy-lifting than I’d thought – creating dimension and giving you a glow. I have this highlighter in Champagne, and I use it on my brow bones, the apple of my cheeks and tip of my nose. Also, because it’s designer and in a mirrored compact, it feels ultra-indulgent.

If I had to choose only one makeup product to wear, I’d pick blush. Funny because I only really started wearing blush in my 30s – I’d always thought it wouldn’t suit my tanned skin. Like the Prada highlighter, this YSL blush feels ultra-indulgent with its padded pink compact lid. I put it on my cheeks and nose bridge. I have it in 87, pink voltage.
When I was a teenager, I’d attack my bushy brows with a razor, so I now have gaps where no hair grows. I get eyebrow tattooing but still need to fill them. I use a few Benefit brow products, but this pencil probably most often – I can’t really make a mistake with it. After blush, a brow pencil would be my must-have makeup product.
Best Skincare For A Self-care Moment:

The price of this palm-sized bottle adds to the indulgence – it really feels like I’m spoiling myself. The instructions say to use it twice a day, but I usually only use it at night, after I’ve cleansed. One pipette of serum on my palms that I press into my skin. I wait a few minutes before I moisturise. A more affordable alternative I also use is
CeraVe Resurfacing Retintol Serum.
I know from TikTok that when it comes to layering skincare, it goes lightest to heaviest. So after I’ve applied serums, I’ll layer this on. It’s gel-like, not a cream, and because it’s on the affordable side, I apply it liberally.
As much as I love the Hada Labo Gel, sometimes I want the luxurious feeling of layering on a thick cream. The peptides work to support skin repair and boost collagen and elasticity.
This little jar has lasted me years. I used to only use it during the change of seasons, when I’d get chapped lips, but now it’s a part of my nighttime unwinding. After I’ve done my skincare, I’ll slather it on my lips as a mask. I have it in peppermint, which always makes me think of Christmas.
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